Desires, ours and others'.

Life is full of twists and turns. Sometimes we do to other people what we wish had not happened to us. But its just what we do. Sometimes we know what we should do, and we don't do it and then regret it. And yet, we all have a central theme that defines our spirit. Irrespective of the contradictions...
Some people are mean by nature. Some people are kind by nature. Some people just want power, so in love too, they just want power over the other...we have to accept that we can't change people. Everybody has a right to want whatever that makes them happy. Its only when we understand and respect other people's choices and desires can we understand and fulfill ours. Because that is when we truly understand the different between their choices and our own and accept the responsibility of our choices, absolutely. No matter what happens...what we don't desire, will not make us happy.