What you want is what you get in life. If you focus on the things you don't want, you would not get the things you want. In order to get what you want, you have to focus on the things you want. And because there are just so many things you can focus on, single mindedly, focussing on the things you DON'T want only leads you astray.
Think in terms of what you want.
I want health.
I want wealth.
I want to be loved.
I want to be happy.
You have to be clear about what you want, in order to get what you want. And of the things you don't want, there's less sense in highlighting.
