Emotional Needs

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Most people blindly expect the other person to guess what they want to be told or given. That's because few people even themselves know what is wrong with them or what is their need of the moment. It's great to have someone who can understand without even being told. Those are sure treasures. But mostly, we just have to state clearly what we want from the other person which we call communication. It can be easier or more difficult for the people who do know what they want. Sometimes it is just difficult for express the need. But what if you take your time to understand what you what. You put it as clearly as possible so that the other person understands it completely. And then the most important part of the puzzle goes missing - you're refused? What then?

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thats your perception about the particular situation Deepa, good things needs 'patience' lady...
don't be so judgmental about anything out of curiosity... here you need to give some time to things to fall into pieces...


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